About US
Who Are We?
The Crown and Collar Society is a private social club whose members prefer to enjoy the kink lifestyle on a sophisticated level with fine dining and artistic expressions. Our private events are not your typical swinger lifestyle or kink community parties and socials.
What Makes Us Different
The Crown and Collar Society prides itself on the level of quality, elegance, and artistic choreography that provided in a setting that befits our members.
ambiance
Our choreographers meticulously select high-end establishments with unique ambiances and attentive service. Unlike your average local swinger or kink party there are no dirty dungeons and tiresome chain restaurants with us.
Haute Cuisine
Our choreographers only work with highly skilled gourmet chefs renowned for their meticulous preparation, elaborate presentation, and the use of high quality ingredients.
Artistic Expressions
Our choreographers work with only the most talented local kinksters to create unique experiences for our members that amalgamate the artistic aspects of Bondage and Discipline (B/D), Dominance and submission (D/s), and Sadism and Masochism (S/M).
Some of our past experiences have included:
Cocktail Hour and Play Party
Our Society members were served their favorite drinks, accompanied with light fare while they mingled and took in our uniquely choreographed living art displays and BDSM demos.
High Tea Service
Our Society members experienced the beauty and elegance of a truly royal high tea service. Experienced staff papered us with the ancient ritual of high tea as first envisioned by Anna, the 7th Duchess of Bedford. Captivated by our uniquely choreographed living art displays and BDSM demos. will and entertain you while you converse with likeminded members.
Black Tie Dinner Service
Our Society members experienced a truly legendary formal black tie dinner service. Our dinner featured an 4 course wine or cocktail dinner perfectly paired by a sommelier with uniquely choreographed living art displays and BDSM demos. This was the hottest kink ticket in town.
Membership
The Crown and Collar Society's members consists of like-minded individuals who prefer to experience kink and lifestyle events in a more exclusive, dignified, and elegant fashion. Society members have priority status in attending our exclusive events for the opportunity to connect with like-minded peers. Prospective members are first vetted by our membership committee. Those selected for consideration are approved by our Advisory Board.
There are three levels of membership. Social members are are provided access to events and newsletters. Priority members receive advance access to purchase event tickets and occasional society gifts. Elite members receive concierge-style access to the society, free access to events, and a tailored kink experience.
Social Membership
100
Every year
Standard Access to all Events
Access to like-minded people with established status;
Access to society events; and
Membership Pin.
Priority Membership
200
Every year
Priority and Early Access to all Events
Access to like-minded people with established status;
Priority early access to society events; and
Membership Pin.
Society membership is required to attend all events.
Elite Membership
1,000
Every year
Concierge Access to the Society
Access to like minded people with establish status;
Unrestricted free access to all society events;
Membership Pin;
Access to Personalized Experiences.
Free Membership With Wolfspirit Kink Education
Upcoming Events
Crown and Collar Society events are uniquely crafted to provide an elegant and sexy dining experience unlike anything anywhere else. To attend events you must first become a member.
- April, 2025TBD (DC/Northern Virginia Area)April, 2025TBD (DC/Northern Virginia Area)
- July, 2025TBD (DC/Northern Virginia Area)July, 2025TBD (DC/Northern Virginia Area)
- January, 2025TBD (DC/Northern Virginia Area)January, 2025TBD (DC/Northern Virginia Area)
- October, 2025TBD (DC/Northern Virginia Area)October, 2025TBD (DC/Northern Virginia Area)
- November, 2024TBD (DC/Northern Virginia Area)November, 2024TBD (DC/Northern Virginia Area)November, 2024TBD (DC/Northern Virginia Area)Come join members of the society and the Haveyoufinished Podcast as we celebrate the kickoff of our new partnership! This will be a exciting evening of elegant apéritifs accompanied with light fare while you mingle with the kink elite and take in our uniquely living art displays and BDSM demos.