About US
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Who Are We?
The Crown and Collar Society is a private social club for those drawn to the sacred art of indulgence. We bring together a curated community of discerning individuals who appreciate the interplay of art and appetite, control and surrender, ritual and spontaneity, elegance and edge. Our exclusive experiences range from intimate chef’s tastings to immersive, art-driven soirées - each event designed to awaken the senses and deepen connection. Through intentional design and a devotion to aesthetics, we craft encounters that explore the more sophisticated side of desire and personal expression.
At the heart of everything we do is our guiding philosophy:
Vivamus, Voluptemur, Epulemur
— Let us live. Let us explore pleasure. Let us feast.
These words are more than a motto - they are an invitation to savor life’s most exquisite experiences,
in all their sensual and unapologetic glory.
What Makes Us Different
The Crown and Collar Society prides itself on honoring guiding principles that befit the high standards and unique expectations of of our members:
Elegance and Excellence
We uphold the highest standards of quality, sophistication, and artistic expression, ensuring every experience reflects the refined tastes of our members.
Curated Ambiance
Every gathering is set in an upscale, thoughtfully chosen venue with exceptional service and a distinctive atmosphere, far from the typical settings of mainstream events.
Gourmet Indulgence
Dining is an integral part of our experience. We collaborate with top-tier chefs and vendors who craft exquisite offerings using the finest ingredients, elevating every meal into a culinary masterpiece.
Artful Exploration
Our events are crafted as immersive, sensorial experiences that explore the artistry of sensual restraint and release, dominance and submission, control and surrender.
Click below for a taste of what our events offer:

What we Look for In Members
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Crown and Collar Society members consist of like-minded epicuristas who aspire to experience life in a more exclusive, refined, and elegant fashion. We routinely visit lifestyle events, art galleries, galas, music events, and fine dining venues to build our member base.
We focus exclusively on individuals who actively enjoy the best of what life has to offer though all five senses. The end result is a curated group of epicuristas who appreciate and share our obsession with quality and indulgence.
If you believe you would be the right fit and would like to be considered for membership, please click below to fill out the application form. Applications are reviewed by a membership committee member for final approval by the Society’s President.
Upcoming Experiences
Crown and Collar Society experiences are uniquely crafted to provide an elegant and sensual experience unlike anything anywhere else.
Why Dates May Shift (And Why We Hope You’ll Hold Them Lightly)
We thoughtfully design each experience around exceptional venues - and those spaces, like our gatherings, are in high demand. As we finalize logistics with our most coveted locations, we ask that you treat these save-the-dates as elegant placeholders. Your flexibility ensures we can deliver the kind of magic and intention you’ve come to expect.
We promise: it will be worth the wait.
You must have an active Society membership to attend our experiences.
If you wish to bring one or more guests, you may purchase tickets on their behalf.
Society members will ensure their guests adhere to our guiding principles, values, and dress code guidelines before tickets are purchased.
- Chef’s Tasting - September 2025Sat, Sep 27Disclosed to Ticket Holders
- Chef’s Tasting - November 2025Sat, Nov 01Disclosed to Ticket Holders
- Crown & Collar Society Social: A Decadent Day OutSat, Nov 15Dulles Expo Center
- Crown & Collar Society Debuts at the Virginia Gold CupSat, May 02The Plains
- The Obsidian Affair - A Crown & Collar Society Signature ExperienceComing in 2026Maryland or Virginia Venue
- The Art of Indulgence MasterclassComing SoonNorthern VA & Washington, DC
- The Secret Season: A Fantasy of Silk and ShadowsComing in Winter 2026Northern Virginia
- Wonderfully Creamed: A Cream Tea in Three ActsComing in Fall 2026Northern Virginia