About US
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Who Are We?
The Crown and Collar Society is a private social club for those drawn to the art of power, pleasure, and refined indulgence. We bring together a curated community of discerning individuals who appreciate the interplay of control and surrender, ritual and spontaneity, elegance and edge. Our exclusive experiences range from intimate chef’s tastings to immersive, art-driven soirées—each event designed to awaken the senses and deepen connection. Through intentional design and a devotion to aesthetics, we craft encounters that explore the more sophisticated side of desire and personal expression. At the heart of everything we do is our guiding philosophy:
Vivamus, Voluptemur, Epulemur — Let us live. Let us explore pleasure. Let us feast.
These words are more than a motto—they are an invitation to savor life’s most exquisite experiences, in all their sensual and unapologetic glory.
What Makes Us Different
The Crown and Collar Society prides itself on honoring guiding principles that befit the high standards and unique expectations of of our members:
Elegance and Excellence
We uphold the highest standards of quality, sophistication, and artistic expression, ensuring every experience reflects the refined tastes of our members.
Curated Ambiance
Every gathering is set in an upscale, thoughtfully chosen venue with exceptional service and a distinctive atmosphere, far from the typical settings of mainstream events.
Gourmet Indulgence
Dining is an integral part of our experience. We collaborate with top-tier chefs and vendors who craft exquisite offerings using the finest ingredients, elevating every meal into a culinary masterpiece.
Artful Exploration
Our events are crafted as immersive, sensorial experiences that explore the artistry of sensual restraint and release, dominance and submission, control and surrender.
Our signature experiences include the following:
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What we Look for In Members
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Crown and Collar Society members consist of kinky epicuristas who aspire to experience lifestyle events in a more exclusive, refined, and elegant fashion. We routinely visit kink events, BDSM-oriented forums, art galleries, galas, music events, and fine dining venues to build our member base.
We focus exclusively on individuals who actively enjoy the best of what life has to offer in food, wine, venues, hotels, kink, and more. The end result is a curated group of open-minded, non-judgmental, kinky epicuristas who appreciate and share our obsession with quality and BDSM.
Society membership is by invitation only. If you have questions about the Society, please send us a message. If you believe you would be the right fit and would like to be considered for the application process, please click here to fill out the application form. Applications are reviewed by a membership committee member for final approval by the Society’s President.
Upcoming Events
Crown and Collar Society events are uniquely crafted to provide an elegant and sexy dining experience unlike anything anywhere else.
Why Dates May Shift (And Why We Hope You’ll Hold Them Lightly)
We thoughtfully design each experience around exceptional venues — and those spaces, like our gatherings, are in high demand. As we finalize logistics with our most coveted locations, we ask that you treat these save-the-dates as elegant placeholders. Your flexibility ensures we can deliver the kind of magic and intention you’ve come to expect. We promise: it will be worth the wait.
You must have an active membership to attend our events. If you wish to bring one or more guests, you may purchase event tickets on their behalf. We rely on Society members to ensure their guests accept our guiding principles and dress code guidelines before tickets are purchased.
Chef’s TastingSat, May 03Disclosed to Ticket Holders
2025 Summer ExperienceSat, Aug 09Given to Ticket Holders
2025 Winter ExperienceSat, Dec 06Given to Ticket Holders